Reasons why we Never Met :(

Good afternoon 😊 this is Diana from Tantra Butterfly 🦋 I’ve been in the sensual massage industry for 25 years plus ➕ and hopefully 🙏 will continue on this journey for many more years to come.

I always welcome new students of tantra seeking a valid form of somatic healing and release. I offer breathwork coaching, reiki, chakra balancing and traditional therapeutic massage during my tantra ceremonies.

However there is a discreet and super easy screening process for new clients. I always ask new guests for a full name, occupation and social media profile before working with them.

The only time I refuse anyone is if they aren’t cooperating with my Verification process or if they have sent me graphic and lewd text messages and photos to my smartphone.

I prefer to be treated with complete transparency and respect with all new guests seeking sensual healing.

Enjoy my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly to book a session or book a paid coffee ☕ or phone consultation. You may call me for free if you are simply calling to schedule a session and have no need for Q & A

Booking a session with me should be stress-free and simple. If I feel we make a great energy match we will proceed with the ceremony.

http://youtube.com/@DianaGrossman?si=UgqovSMGLyhd6C3j

Come join me in the co creation of sacred space ✨ #Tantra heals

I always wish to attract anyone who wishes to transcend the mundane and learn how to be fully present. I’m highly skilled in tantra yoga and reiki! I’m an ideal choice for people wishing to learn about rebirthing breath, giving up addictive habits, or surrendering to consciousness and intentional touch.

I welcome men, women, and non binary individuals who need a tantra partner and couples who want to learn more about bringing energy work and loving intentional touch into their current relationship.

Repeat sessions are highly recommended so I suggest visiting me bi monthly for you to see results.

Tantra massage heals social anxiety, panic attacks, unhealthy attachments and helps balance your chakras while increasing your endorphins.

Anyone seeking to learn more about establishing healthy boundaries in their sexual relationship with their partner is welcome to schedule a tantra yoga ceremony with me!

please read my main website here:

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Then send me an introductory email 📧

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

please include all your personal details to make it simple for me to verify who you are such as your full legal name, occupation, age range, social media links etc…

Include your phone number, goals, questions and I will reply. If I can’t personally help you I will refer you to the correct source.

I welcome anyone who is emotionally mature enough to join me on a unique journey of self healing and sexual wellness.

I Love & appreciate ❤ testimonials from my Guests

If you loved our time together ❤ and want to receive a discount off our future Chicago Tantra ceremony simply write me a thoughtful review. Your review doesn’t have to be a novel in length or graphic in nature. I’m always in need of new reviews for my website and you are welcome to use whatever alias suits you. You will receive a $50 credit off any future tantra ceremony of any length or if you prefer extra time added onto any session.

This weekend I worked on three special guests. Each person came to me without any prior knowledge of tantra or alternative healing. I used a combination of my knowledge of breathwork, aromatherapy, holistic bodywork, chakra balancing and kundalini full body activation. It’s always satisfying to me when each person reacts so positively to the energie. Your body intuitively knows what to do with your stored sexual energy and you will receive a feeling of intense heat wherever you needed the healing the most.

Here’s a copy of the lovely review I received most recently. I’m including a link to my main website so you can read more testimonials from current and former clients of mine

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I rarely write reviews but I feel Diana genuinely deserves to have one written for her and so here I am on a Sunday evening trying to share my very personal and intimate session I shared with her this past weekend.

What prompted me to seek out a tantra session was a combination of genuine curiosity, a little extra spare time and a lot of grief.

A good friend of mine lost a battle with cancer and I spent many hours supporting him emotionally and taking care of his family’s needs these past few months.

I was having trouble sleeping and found myself thinking too much so I went through Diana’s website last week because I was planning a trip to Chicago.  I emailed her and received a response within the hour and when she called me back she gave me a few suggestions and so I wanted her to visit me since I had rented a beautiful airbnb in River North and didn’t feel like leaving my space.

Diana has a lovely touch and she is clearly knowledgeable and enthusiastic about her craft.  We had a great chemistry between us and I ended up extending our two session into three hours just because I didn’t want our time together to come to an end.

If you’re low on energy or find yourself depleted Diana’s touch will be just what you need.  

Marvin from Dekalb… 

So there you go! I truly hope you will choose me as your future tantra muse and guide. I take great pride in my work and this is my only passion in life. I put all my focus and attention on the co creation of sacred space ✨ because I love making people feel good!

Fancy a session with me? Well please tell me more about you! Please include your full legal name and occupation and one or two links to your social media account(s). Even if you’re retired or in between jobs, or a student enrolled in College. Be sure to share two important goals you have for our time together even if it’s just to engage in play or have a soothing and relaxing time together.

Your reasons for wishing to experience tantra massage and tantra yoga don’t need to be complex 🙏 I will accept you as a new guest if I feel we have a mutual connection ✨

Contact me via email 📧 first tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and you can always send me an informative text and call me directly here too 312 339 7707

Mantras play a major role in authentic Tantra massage ceremonies


Chanting #Mantras can help alleviate stress, depression and severe anxieties.  Chanting Mantras helps you focus & help you potentially attract an end result.  For instance there are mantras for abundance, attraction, positive energies and better health.

#Mantra is a single word and or sound you chant repeatedly to induce meditation and also help open up your #chakras


When your chakras are in Alignment you attract more positive situations & opportunities to you.

I love using #mantras or chants in my daily ritual & as we co create #sacredspace together you will have the opportunity to listen to these mantras during your #chicagotantra ceremony ♥️

Your body’s energies will flow better; your #chakras will be in alignment and your physical body will glow with health ✨️ Not to boast but my guests who visit me leave refreshed and looking years younger 💫 than their true physical age. Let’s be honest here a poor diet, physical & emotional stress & a lack of good quality exercise & sleep ages your body prematurely.  In order to reverse the Aging process you must remove the stressors & practice daily rituals and self care ❤

I also include Mantras & #soundhealing during my #reiki treatments

If you are interested ✨ in working with me
Let me know more about you!
Send me an introductory 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Please include your details, your goals and budget and I will suggest a ceremony perfect for your needs.

Please visit my main website prior to contacting me http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I’ve spent over 25 years perfecting my craft and I hope to exceed your expectations.

If you wish to book a session immediately call me directly at 312 339 7707 and also send me a text message. Please include your full legal name, occupation, and one or two public social media accounts in the body of your text and emails that you send me. It’s part of the verification process and is mandatory before we actually meet.

Sound healing plays a primary role in my Tantra ceremonies

 I love playing my collection of #singingbowls to my guests during my #chicagotantra ceremonies & my #reiki sessions


this particular instrument I’m playing is a very tiny brass singing bowl 🥣 from Nepal 🇳🇵 and it’s sound is especially pleasant and pronounced

sound healing helps expand your #chakrabodies and when all of our chakras are healthy and open we are receptive to feeling more energy within us.

During your tantra ceremony you will receive constant guidance from me on when to take a deep breath and how to make sounds to let your negative energy leave your body.

Touch is so important. We don’t receive enough touch these days especially if we are single or disconnected from our partners. Healing intuitive touch both physical and energetic are employed 🙌 during our tantra ceremony along with chanting and sound healing.

I go out of my way to create a cozy, playful and sacred space for you to let down your guard and help you heal from somatic trauma.

In order for you to receive the very best of me I’d like you to pick and choose and verbalize what ceremonies suit your needs best so please carefully go through my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and then call me directly with questions if you have any.

Here is my best contact information 312 339 7707 tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

I always book sessions by appointment only meaning 15 minutes isn’t enough time for me to create some magic for you. I need at least 2 to 3 hours for a sacred ceremony, a deposit and your full legal name and social media presence.

I do take my work seriously and I’d like all my guests to feel loved, nurtured and listened to as we co create sacred space together.

Singing bowl 🥣 therapy

Tantra is a form of self care ❤ & self pampering

Many years ago before 2013 I used to travel from city to city and I lived in Atlanta, Georgia for two years but traveled to different cities at least every three weeks.

Back then certain websites existed such as Tantra.com, the Goddess Temple website and I used to advertise on Eros Guide before being banned because I used the word “yoni” in the body of my advertisement.

Anyway I digress and if you don’t mind following me along here I typically write in stream of consciousness style and meander quite a bit; but eventually I promise to “get to the point”.

When I lived in Atlanta a really sweet retired teacher by the name if Gregory A. reached out to me via email. He was fascinated by my website and he had always wanted to try a tantra ceremony. He had been hiring high class prostitutes typically from ads on the Eros guide and even though he enjoyed himself he didn’t find these experiences very enriching.

Since I lived in Atlanta and he lived in Maryland with his ailing mother he decided to sponsor me and hire me for a full day of tantra and we would meet up in Washington DC. He sent me enough money for my traveling expenses and picked me up at the airport super excited to meet me. It’s like we had always been good friends.

After our fun weekend together he and I would meet up each time I’d travel to Washington DC or Manhattan, New York. We enjoyed eachother’s company, go out quite a bit for sushi and co create sacred space together. Mostly we just enjoyed exploring the city and engaging in mutual massage.

Gregory was a very thoughtful man and a giver. He genuinely adored women and even bought thoughtful gifts for me, his two daughters, his mother and his close female friends.

He did however feel regretful that he was no longer married and more than anything he wanted to remarry so he had proposed to his former girlfriend many times but she had a drinking problem and when she went to AA meetings she ended up meeting her true soul mate and so Gregory felt a bit discarded and resentful of her new boyfriend because he had always been there for her not only as a lover but as a dear friend.

Gregory would vent to me and share all these stories including the experience he had hiring Hayley, a young a beautiful call girl he developed a fondness for. This girl would advertise on backpacks and Gregory enjoyed her companionship so much he’d take her to extremely expensive restaurants and he even bought her a beautiful charm necklace. I think Gregory loved to romanticize that he would “rescue” her and marry her; but that never happened. She would ask him for money for her bills and she genuinely enjoyed his attentiveness and generosity but if you ask me she only saw him as a “sugar daddy” someone who would take her out and pay part of her rent and utility bills in exchange for her company and her beauty.

I always looked forward to meeting up with Gregory. He was extremely intelligent, great to talk to and very attentive and reassuring when you needed a sounding board and good advice. He had many interesting stories to tell and I thought of him as a great friend not just a client who needed my services. We always kept in touch even when i stopped traveling and when I had moved back to Chicago he sent me lovely gifts for the holidays just to make sure I knew that someone cared about me. He often mentioned he might visit me in Chicago because he loved baseball and the Chicago Cubs but sadly this never happened.

We met up again one last time in New York and we spent a few hours together enjoying tantra massage and a light lunch and then I never saw him again. He had asked me to marry him a few times but I rarely fall in love and I’d smile at him and politely decline awkwardly.

The only bad habit Gregory had was chain smoking. When he booked me for full day ceremonies or a weekend he constantly had to excuse himself to step outside and enjoy a smoke. He already had a fast metabolism and he was a very high energy kind of person who hated staying still so the smoking helped him focus and soothe his nerves.

We eventually lost touch with eachother sadly and he was mainly focused on his two daughters, taking care of his mother and traveling on cruises. He kept active with regards to animal sanctuaries and focusing on his youngest daughter when she needed to move back in with him full time during her advanced level college courses.

I tried calling him but he had changed his number and he stopped being active on Facebook. I was a bit concerned and hurt but didn’t want to bother him on messenger. It was only two months ago I noticed his two daughters and friends honoring his memory on his Facebook page. I then realized he must have passed away during covid, most likely because of his non stop smoking habit but I can’t be certain.

Anyway what I’m trying to say is Gregory was the primary caretaker of his older mother. There were times he’d share the fact that she was so sick he was almost certain she would die within months and when he inherits her home he would sell it and buy an apartment in Manhattan. He even suggested that he and I should share an apartment in New York together and split the costs but I couldn’t see that happening. Instead I always told him that when his mother dies he should keep her home and enjoy it so that his children will always have a place to live.

Instead Gregory died and his mother who is in her 90’s is still alive and currently being taken care of by her two granddaughters because I noticed his children posting her photo on his wall and assuring Gregory that they are taking care of Nonna.

I don’t know if Gregory ever truly loved himself to be ok with being alone and single. I’m not sure why he lost the will to live or perhaps he didn’t notice the toll that his life was taking on his body and his spirit. All I can say is you have to alright with just being by yourself and you should always make time for self care ❤ because if you are always focused on making others happy you will eventually run low yourself.

I hope that by reading this short story you don’t forget to take care of yourself first even if you prefer focusing all your attention on others. If your family relies on you heavily please don’t forget to take care of your needs even it it’s just a hot bath you draw for yourself at the end of the day.

If you find yourself physically drained or low on energy please reach out to me. I’m available for the Holidays and I never take a day off work because tantra brings me so much joy and personal fulfillment.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

312 339 7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Thanks for following my blog and please don’t feel shy or embarrassed about booking a #chicagotantra ceremony with me soon.

Who would benefit from a tantra ceremony?

Who is #tantra for?

You should consider a #tantramassage if you’ve genuinely been reading up on the topic, it piqued your interest and now YOU Finally deserve a SPLURGE

Because that’s what this is ….
It’s an indulgence that’s actually physically good for you and a habit that won’t harm but heal….

Some people give me the feedback that it feels like a little galaxy of stars 🌟 ✨ gathered around their #crownchakra

And for others it’s a wake up to forgotten trauma and abuse they’ve ignored and stored within their body’s memories….

The memories within each cell of your body is triggered during any form of #somaticrelease & #alternativehealing

You are unique
And your body’s blueprint will guide me
Where shall we focus?
That answer will come to me once we meet and co create #sacredspace

You can speak your boundaries and feel safe

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com butterflyshadows@aol.com
312 339 7707

Email me your goals

Preverification is Mandatory for all serious students of #chicagotantra

A Deposit will show me how serious you are …..

I will hold space for your joy, your healing, your body awareness and your #kundalini activation

Eye Gazing a simple Tantra exercise

Please introduce yourself to me first 🙏

I should not have to write this post because it should be common knowledge between all business people that a formal introduction is expected the first time you email, text or call a fellow professional.

The majority of New potential clients lately are texting me questions without letting me know who they are. I’m always going to ask who someone is if they aren’t already in my contacts list.

I’ve also had to switch cell phones numerous times in my thirty years as a tantra therapist and I’m very certain I’ve accidentally deleted clients from my past inadvertently. For this reason I would love everyone to introduce themselves first during their first greeting whether it’s an email 📧 introduction to Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com or butterflyshadows@aol.com…

I’d like to know who you are and why you’re interested in tantra. Also reading my website carefully prior to contacting me is very important so please go directly to my main site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and spend some time reading my services page, ceremonial donations and especially my testimonials written by clients who appreciated their time with me.

Hope to learn more about you! Always remember to include your full name, occupation and social media status such as a Facebook business page or LinkedIn profile.

You can find my profile on LinkedIn easily. Just type in Tantra Butterfly in the search bar and follow my posts.

Hope to meet you soon!

If you want to really support me please subscribe to my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly 🦋 I try and post weekly videos 📹 and it’s the perfect way to get to know me prior to meeting me in person.

Let’s Define what Tantra truly is

#tantra is #yoga We include breathwork, energy work, #somaticrelease, emotional release, intentional touch, co creation of #sacredspace #soundhealing #chakrabalancing and techniques for expanding pleasure

People experience waves of bliss when #kundalini is activated


You will experience tingling, warmth ✨ vibrations It’s a perfect way to increase mental clarity & activate your 3rd eye #Ajna #pinealgland #reiki is included #chanting & #mantras all used to activate, awaken & heal the trauma stored within the cells of your body & reproductive organs

I’m a licensed and certified tantra educator and I’ve been active in my field for thirty years and still have a great passion for healing people 🙏 and co creation of sacred space despite all the challenges I’ve met in recent years. I even made myself fully available for old guests and new clients during the pandemic when other people in my industry chose to retire or go online instead of offering healing touch in person.

Being sensitive is part of living on this planet 🌏 🌍 🌎 Learn how to establish boundaries while have fun at the same time….
Being more open will definitely make you more vulnerable but you will be in alignment with who you truly are— not what people expect you to be….

I’ve always maintained positivity despite the hatred, bullying and cruelty from my peers. I could care less what others think of me or how they perceive me. I’ve stayed strong and grounded because I have an understanding of how energy works and how to create a sacred space within me.

If you feel drawn to my offerings please read through my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly and enjoy some short videos I’ve created to help define what tantra is. Just keep in mind tantra is yoga and we must take time to breathe deeply during our time together ❤ to help enhance your body’s ability to process energy, pain and emotions.

Hope to see you soon

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

312 339 7707 🕉

Goddess Diana Tantra Butterfly 🦋

As we honor the Yoni we heal & love ourselves

Yoni what does this word invoke within you?

Yoni is directly affiliated with #GoddessShakti She is a #HinduGoddess she is the #divinefeminine she is the Womb and Birthplace & flower

#tantra invokes honoring the Divine essence within us all

We all have within us the God/Goddess spark of Consciousness

#Tantra is #yoga we practice tantra to honor the divinity within ourselves and others

if you can not honor the Divine force that exists within you; you will have trouble respecting the Divinity in others.  if you can’t respect and love yourself unconditionally you will not be able to consciously express love for another Being.

I have set up a code of Ethics for myself and others who come to see me for my #chicagotantra ceremonies.

You would be surprised at how many texts and calls I receive from prospective clients who refuse to honor my boundaries by fulfilling my Verification process.

I request a first and last legal name and deposit before we work together.  This is the bare minimum and should be easy and drama free

In order to be qualified for my Goddess worship ceremonies you should read 📚 up on Goddess energy first by purchasing reading material beforehand and understanding that healing the #Yoni is not for Entertainment purposes only or your Self Gratification

When new students are intrigued about Goddess healing they must understand that yoni healing involves mutual respect 🙏 and kindness…

I have sessions that are specifically geared towards male honoring and relaxation therapy to help align and empower the Divine Male Essence and I have Goddess Worship Ceremonies to help men honor and heal the beautiful Goddesses in their lives.

It bears repeating that Goddess worship is meant to help heal and release trauma found within the yoni.

We tend to store shame, pain, guilt and trauma within our genitalia, our pelvic cradle and our psoas muscles. Yoni and pelvic massages are used to help gently awaken the sacral chakra with kind, loving touch and positive intentions.

Yoni honoring or Goddess Worship is not meant to gratify your sexual desires. You are offering your goddess unconditional love and support while helping her release stored pain and trauma.

You are invited to visit my main website here

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

After reading my site send me an introductory email and tell me more about yourself and your interest in tantra.

Please include your legal name, profession and background if any in alternative healing 🙏